Use zmq-anyio #2698

Job	Run time
test_docs	39s
link_check	3m 41s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 36s
check_release	1m 35s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 23s
Make SDist	20s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	5m 20s
Test Lint	52s
Test Minimum Versions	20m 13s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	6m 29s
Test Prereleases	2m 18s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	15m 47s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 41s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	3m 27s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	15m 41s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	3m 19s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 16s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 40s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 13s
coverage	0s
tests_check	2s
	2h 3m 32s

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