Overhauling TiKV RocksDB configuration file (#5746)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #5746

First-time contributors' checklist

• I've signed Contributor License Agreement that's required for repo owners to accept my contribution.

What is changed, added or deleted? (Required)

writecf and lockcf only listed partial configuration items, and their selections aren't consistent.

Which TiDB version(s) do your changes apply to? (Required)

• master (the latest development version)
• v5.1 (TiDB 5.1 versions)
• v5.0 (TiDB 5.0 versions)
• v4.0 (TiDB 4.0 versions)
• v3.1 (TiDB 3.1 versions)
• v3.0 (TiDB 3.0 versions)
• v2.1 (TiDB 2.1 versions)

What is the related PR or file link(s)?

Do your changes match any of the following descriptions?

• Delete files
• Change aliases
• Need modification after applied to another branch
• Might cause conflicts after applied to another branch

[ti-chi-bot]

[REVIEW NOTIFICATION]

This pull request has not been approved.

To complete the pull request process, please ask the reviewers in the list to review by filling /cc @reviewer in the comment.
After your PR has acquired the required number of LGTMs, you can assign this pull request to the committer in the list by filling /assign @committer in the comment to help you merge this pull request.

The full list of commands accepted by this bot can be found here.

Details

Reviewer can indicate their review by submitting an approval review.
Reviewer can cancel approval by submitting a request changes review.