Refactor pyproject.toml to update dependency groups and add wheel pac…

[andy778]

update pyproject.toml

Description

update pyproject.toml to new format that is not depreciated

Issue ticket number and link from

#45

Checklist

• [x ] I have performed a self-review of my code locally
• My code follows the style guidelines of this project (e.g. passes ruff lint + mypy type hinting)
• If it is a core feature, I have added thorough tests.
• [ x] Documentation has been updated or the changes are too minor to be documented

[andy778]

This is needed in order to not fail on uv sync
docker build . -f docker/htrflow.dockerfile

[andy778]

ruff check . -> All checks passed!

but mypy . ... src/htrflow/progress.py:20: error: Need type annotation for "_exports" [var-annotated] Found 168 errors in 34 files (checked 43 source files)