Java hosting integration enhancements & Gradle support

[marshalhayes]

Closes #1128

This pull request adds support for building Java applications with Gradle, as well as refactors the existing Java hosting integration to align with current Aspire best practices.

I will add more details soon.

PR Checklist

• Created a feature/dev branch in your fork (vs. submitting directly from a commit on main)
• Based off latest main branch of toolkit
• PR doesn't include merge commits (always rebase on top of our main, if needed)
• New integration
  • Docs are written
  • Added description of major feature to project description for NuGet package (4000 total character limit, so don't push entire description over that)
• Tests for the changes have been added (for bug fixes / features) (if applicable)
• Contains NO breaking changes
• Every new API (including internal ones) has full XML docs
• Code follows all style conventions

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