fuse: allow non-extending parallel direct writes on the same file

[d-hans]

In general, as of now, in FUSE, direct writes on the same file are serialized over inode lock i.e we hold inode lock for the full duration of the write request. I could not find in fuse code and git history a comment which clearly explains why this exclusive lock is taken for direct writes. Following might be the reasons for acquiring an exclusive lock but not be limited to

1. Our guess is some USER space fuse implementations might be relying on
   this lock for serialization.

2. The lock protects against file read/write size races.

3. Ruling out any issues arising from partial write failures.

This patch relaxes the exclusive lock for direct non-extending writes only. File size extending writes might not need the lock either, but we are not entirely sure if there is a risk to introduce any kind of regression. Furthermore, benchmarking with fio does not show a difference between patch versions that take on file size extension a) an exclusive lock and b) a shared lock.

A possible example of an issue with i_size extending writes are write error cases. Some writes might succeed and others might fail for file system internal reasons - for example ENOSPACE. With parallel file size extending writes it might be difficult to revert the action of the failing write, especially to restore the right i_size.

With these changes, we allow non-extending parallel direct writes on the same file with the help of a flag called FOPEN_PARALLEL_DIRECT_WRITES. If this flag is set on the file (flag is passed from libfuse to fuse kernel as part of file open/create), we do not take exclusive lock anymore, but instead use a shared lock that allows non-extending writes to run in parallel. FUSE implementations which rely on this inode lock for serialization can continue to do so and serialized direct writes are still the default. Implementations that do not do write serialization need to be updated and need to set the FOPEN_PARALLEL_DIRECT_WRITES flag in their file open/create reply.

On patch review there were concerns that network file systems (or vfs multiple mounts of the same file system) might have issues with parallel writes. We believe this is not the case, as this is just a local lock, which network file systems could not rely on anyway. I.e. this lock is just for local consistency.