chore(asm): clean libddwaf loading [forwardport 3.x]

[erikayasuda]

Forwardporting #12102

Depending of the timing, libddwaf loading process could create triggers that would create loops in our instrumentation.
From what I investigated:

• if loaded too early, it could have bad interactions with gevent.
• if loaded too late, it could be self instrumented by the tracer, creating a loop, as ctypes is using Popen and subprocess.

while keeping the late loading introduced by 2 previous PRs

• chore(asm): improve dependency for api security #11987
• ci(appsec): fix ddwaf circular import #12013 this PR introduced a mechanism to bypass tracer instrumentation during ctypes loading, to avoid a possible loop that would prevent the WAF to be loaded.

(cherry picked from commit 4f0bcb5)

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CODEOWNERS have been resolved as:

ddtrace/appsec/_ddwaf/ddwaf_types.py                                    @DataDog/asm-python
ddtrace/appsec/_processor.py                                            @DataDog/asm-python
ddtrace/contrib/internal/subprocess/patch.py                            @DataDog/asm-python
ddtrace/settings/asm.py                                                 @DataDog/asm-python

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Datadog Report

Branch report: backport-12102-to-3.x
Commit report: 1008266
Test service: dd-trace-py

✅ 0 Failed, 130 Passed, 1378 Skipped, 4m 50.82s Total duration (35m 5.93s time saved)

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Benchmarks

Benchmark execution time: 2025-01-29 17:39:10

Comparing candidate commit 1008266 in PR branch backport-12102-to-3.x with baseline commit 3337560 in branch 3.x-staging.

Found 0 performance improvements and 0 performance regressions! Performance is the same for 394 metrics, 2 unstable metrics.