Migrate to stream-ordered allocator for arrays

[pxl-th]

TODO: add detailed PR description

Builds upon #419
Fixes #418

[mzy2240]

I am wondering if this PR would also fix the synchronization issue in #298

[pxl-th]

In general this PR fixes use-after-free issues, where previously one could hit a scenario where:

• call a HIP-based kernel (e.g. rocBLAS gemm)
• GC frees arrays you passed as arguments before kernel finishes
• you get use-after-free error and/or a hang

But the issue with HIP-based allocations at the moment is that they are drawn from a HIP memory pool which grows on-demand and you can limit the total size of the pool only starting from ROCm 5.5+ via hipDeviceSetLimit.

And when the pool grows to near 100% of the total memory available on the device (because GC is not keeping up) it kills our HSA queue since it cannot allocate necessary resources for a kernel dispatch.

Interestingly, you can get the memory limit of the pool on ROCm 5.4 but not set it.

And constraining pool growth from the Julia side seems unreliable at the moment.

[pxl-th]

Superseded by #423