Update windows-rs dependency

[paul-hansen]

Description/motivation

It would be nice to get the windows crate dependency updated to the latest version to avoid duplicated dependencies like this one: https://github.com/bevyengine/bevy/actions/runs/3451394906/jobs/5760584454

This is my attempt to help with that. Feedback is welcome!

Code review notes

A lot of the changes were just changing null pointer arguments to None which should be straightforward.

There are a couple places I don't fully understand the consequences and just did what I needed to satisfy the type checker. If anyone more familiar with FFI and/or the Windows API can confirm it looks correct that would be much appreciated.
Especially around this section here with the pointer to a pointer, that was definitely something I don't deal with often: https://github.com/paul-hansen/cpal/blob/1c1c29ea1b627e433b5dea47343d0c63b4cc85a1/src/host/wasapi/device.rs#L225-L236

[est31]

Thanks, and it's shocking that the windows crate had this many breaking changes since we added it. There were three breaking changes in september alone. I am okay with this PR in particular, but in general, i do not want cpal to follow every single windows-rs release.

This release cadence seems to have been brought up to maintainers in microsoft/windows-rs#1720 but they have closed it as non actionable... maybe we should revert #669 and switch back to winapi?

[est31]

Okay I've merged this, winapi seems to still be unmaintained, so we can't do much about this. I wonder if it would be possible to switch from windows-rs to windows-sys?