fix - statuses sticking, and badge rendering

[nushea]

Description

Fix statuses sticking from optimization and badge showing the wrong pfp in the DM list

(same 2 'people' in this chat, both dm chat, showing the right pfp with their statuses fixed)

Fixes Issue mentioned in the space

Type of change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• This change requires a documentation update

Checklist:

• My code follows the style guidelines of this project
• I have performed a self-review of my own code
• I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• My changes generate no new warnings

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• Partially AI assisted (clarify which code was AI assisted and briefly explain what it does).
• Fully AI generated (explain what all the generated code does in moderate detail).

A sleep paralysis demon moved my body as to type the fix

[nushea]

had it drafted to fix a more general presence issue, the sleep paralysis demon put me back to sleep just to possess me to write the fix