Fix TableView resize observer loop limit

[snowystinger]

Closes #1924

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[snowystinger]

Closed #5367 in favor of this change

[snowystinger]

React 16 and 17 don't batch like 18. We instead emulate that (to a degree) by waiting for a raf before submitting our state changes

We also tried unstable_batchupdates, which solved most of the issue. However, when the scrollbar appeared, we got the dreaded loop limit exceeded. This is likely because two updates were coming in faster than a single raf. First, the rect size change due to the resize of the window. Second, a rect size change due to the scroll bar appearing.

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