Relax bun version check to allow patch differences

[RandyMcMillan]

The current bun version check fails when the patch version differs (e.g., 1.3.5 vs 1.3.6), but patch versions should be backward compatible.

Problem:

• Developers cannot use slightly newer patch versions of bun
• Blocks development workflow for minor version updates

Solution:

• Error only when major/minor versions differ (breaking changes)
• Warn when patch versions differ (compatible changes)
• Updated both the build script and pre-push hook
  Impact:
• Improves developer experience
• Allows minor bun version updates without code changes

[MBanucu]

#9682

It should be relaxed now.

[RandyMcMillan]

this version addresses the git hook.

#8468