[Variant] `variant_get(..., List<_>)` non-Struct types support

[sdf-jkl]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.

While working on #9599 @scovich and I noticed that variant_get(..., List<Int64>) returns a shredded List<Struct{value, typed_value:Int64}> instead of List<Int64>
#9599 (comment)

I believe the newly added test_variant_get_list_like_unsafe_cast_preserves_null_elements unit test confirms the wrong behavior:
Caller passes DataType::List(Arc::new(Field::new("item", DataType::Int64, true))) (= List)
But the test expects List<Struct{value, typed_value:Int64}> (= shredded variant array)

Describe the solution you'd like
Make VariantToListArrowRowBuilder build arrays depending on the requested output type, not just shredded struct.

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Additional context

[liamzwbao]

This makes sense. Thanks for catching this, @sdf-jkl! I will take a look

[alamb]

label_issue.py automatically added labels {'parquet-variant'} from #9599