[C++] Add options to StreamWriter/FileWriter to permit large record batches

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Follow up to ARROW-679

Reporter: Wes McKinney / @wesm
Assignee: Wes McKinney / @wesm

Related issues:

• Arrow 0.3 release (blocks)

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-698. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

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Wes McKinney / @wesm:
PR: #455

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Wes McKinney / @wesm:
Issue resolved by pull request 455
#455