[Java] Add unsafe access method to ArrowBuf

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Add unsafe access method to ArrowBuf to allow external user access underlying memory without boundary check

Reporter: Yurui Zhou / @yuruiz

PRs and other links:

• GitHub Pull Request #4186

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-5199. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

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Micah Kornfield / @emkornfield:
There is already a facility for turning off memory checks via environment variable or system property

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Todd Farmer / @toddfarmer:
Transitioning issue from Resolved to Closed to based on resolution field value.