[R] [CI] M1 tests

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The CRAN specifics are: https://www.stats.ox.ac.uk/pub/bdr/M1mac/README.txt

ARROW-10657 is the more general ticket for the project

Reporter: Jonathan Keane / @jonkeane

Related issues:

• [CI][R] Implement CI on Apple M1 for R (duplicates)

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-14536. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

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Neal Richardson / @nealrichardson:
@assignUser this is done right?