[Python][CI] Support ORC in Windows wheels

[asfimport]

Now we support building with ORC enabled on Windows (ARROW-17817), we could also add this to the Python wheel packages for Windows (vcpkg seems to have an orc port for Windows as well)

Reporter: Joris Van den Bossche / @jorisvandenbossche

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-18329. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

[jorisvandenbossche]

Resolved by #40609