[CI] Update crossbow message about private org visibility

[assignUser]

The default membership in the ASF org is private which is a bit hard to spot as there is no indication of it being hidden and you can see other members badge as well. We should a link to the GH docs to the reflection message.

Originally posted by @lidavidm in #39215 (comment)

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