[C++][Python] Update DLPack version

[AlenkaF]

Describe the enhancement requested

DLPack has released a new version 1.0 of the protocol in february 2024. We should update our current implementation for the Array object, see #38472.

Component(s)

C++, Python

[thisisnic]

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