ARROW-13538: [R] [CI] Don't test DuckDB in the minimal build

[jonkeane]

Also request the correct version of duckdb now that it's been released.

[jonkeane]

@github-actions crossbow submit test-r-minimal

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-13538

[jonkeane]

@github-actions crossbow submit test-r-minimal-build

[github-actions]

Revision: 2f9ee26e36ca438ce1bee3204e7f2c85c6804dac

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-706

Task	Status
test-r-minimal-build

[jonkeane]

@github-actions crossbow submit -g r

[github-actions]

Revision: 93ca61045bca627a90acf9e70d203128d9209f50

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-710

Task	Status
conda-linux-gcc-py36-cpu-r40
conda-linux-gcc-py37-cpu-r41
conda-osx-clang-py36-r40
conda-osx-clang-py37-r41
conda-win-vs2017-py36-r40
conda-win-vs2017-py37-r41
homebrew-r-autobrew
test-r-devdocs
test-r-gcc-11
test-r-install-local
test-r-linux-as-cran
test-r-linux-rchk
test-r-linux-valgrind
test-r-minimal-build
test-r-rhub-ubuntu-gcc-release-latest
test-r-rocker-r-base-latest
test-r-rstudio-r-base-3.6-bionic
test-r-rstudio-r-base-3.6-centos7-devtoolset-8
test-r-rstudio-r-base-3.6-centos8
test-r-rstudio-r-base-3.6-opensuse15
test-r-rstudio-r-base-3.6-opensuse42
test-r-ubuntu-21.04
test-r-version-compatibility
test-r-versions
test-r-without-arrow
test-ubuntu-18.04-r-sanitizer

[nealrichardson]

Can you rebase and resolve conflicts? I did a similar run_duckdb_examples on a branch I just merged in order to resolve some lint/broken rd messages, so we're conflicting.

Also, check the new regexp in ci/scripts/r_deps.sh: can you tweak that so that it still drops duckdb now that there's an explicit version listed?

[jonkeane]

OK, thanks all done