ARROW-16240: [Python] Support row_group_size/chunk_size keyword in pq.write_to_dataset with use_legacy_dataset=False

[AlenkaF]

No description provided.

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-16240

[jorisvandenbossche]

Thanks!

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 98b324d and contender = ea296cd. ea296cd is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed] test-mac-arm
[Finished ⬇️1.07% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished ⬇️0.25% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2/builds/601| ea296cd6 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2>
[Failed] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-test-mac-arm/builds/589| ea296cd6 test-mac-arm>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ursa-i9-9960x/builds/588| ea296cd6 ursa-i9-9960x>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ursa-thinkcentre-m75q/builds/599| ea296cd6 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2/builds/600| 98b324da ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2>
[Failed] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-test-mac-arm/builds/588| 98b324da test-mac-arm>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ursa-i9-9960x/builds/587| 98b324da ursa-i9-9960x>
[Finished] <https://buildkite.com/apache-arrow/arrow-bci-benchmark-on-ursa-thinkcentre-m75q/builds/598| 98b324da ursa-thinkcentre-m75q>
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java

[ursabot]

['Python', 'R'] benchmarks have high level of regressions.
ursa-i9-9960x