Support managed jdbc io (SQLServer)

[shunping]

Managed JDBCIO (Part 3) - SqlServer

Similar to #36034 and #36045

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[ahmedabu98]

overall looks good, just a couple comments

side note -- We should look into an abstract testing class for these. There's a lot of boiler plate that can be cleaned up here

[shunping]

side note -- We should look into an abstract testing class for these. There's a lot of boiler plate that can be cleaned up here

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