Replace &Option<T> with Option<&T>

[askoa]

Which issue does this PR close?

Part of #4424

Changed some occurrences of &Option<T> with Option<&T>

Are there any user-facing changes?

There might be user facing changes as public functions are modified. Would leave it up to reviewers to add api-change tag.

[alamb]

Thanks @askoa

[askoa]

The build failure seems unrelated to this PR.

[alamb]

The CI check has been fixed in #4450

This PR looks like it has some conflicts with master that now need to be fixed, so the next run should pass.

Thanks again @askoa

[alamb]

Thanks @askoa

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 38e9f30 and contender = bde3c91. bde3c91 is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
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