[fix](hashjoin) return error if in progress of upgrade

[jacktengg]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #13752

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2. Has unit tests been added:
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[hello-stephen]

TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 40.23 seconds
load time: 629 seconds
storage size: 17154865175 Bytes
https://doris-community-test-1308700295.cos.ap-hongkong.myqcloud.com/tmp/20221028040411_clickbench_pr_35085.html

[yiguolei]

LGTM

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