[fix](nereids)dphyper join reorder use wrong method to get hash and other conjuncts

[starocean999]

Proposed changes

should use getHashJoinConjuncts() and getOtherJoinConjuncts() to get hash and other conjuncts of hash join node instead of categorizing them by checking if it's 'EqualTo' expression

Further comments

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[starocean999]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.61 seconds
stream load tsv: 512 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 139 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 30 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 27 MB/s
insert into select: 29.3 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 341K ops/s
storage size: 17161944184 Bytes

[starocean999]

run buildall

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.12 seconds
stream load tsv: 538 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 132 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 99.4 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 100K ops/s
storage size: 17162437937 Bytes