[fix](multi-catalog)fix all avro,hudi and jdbc scanner class loader dependencies conflicts

[wsjz]

Proposed changes

add preload-extensions module, put all conflict dependencies to pom.xml in preload-extensions

Further comments

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[wsjz]

run buildall

[wsjz]

run external

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.95 seconds
stream load tsv: 542 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 131 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 30 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 27 MB/s
insert into select: 29.1 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 343K ops/s
storage size: 17162015008 Bytes

[wsjz]

run external

[wsjz]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.21 seconds
stream load tsv: 535 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 133 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.3 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 341K ops/s
storage size: 17161912511 Bytes

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[zy-kkk]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 44.83 seconds
stream load tsv: 539 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 132 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.5 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 338K ops/s
storage size: 17162330278 Bytes

[wsjz]

run p0

[zy-kkk]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[hidataplus]

what diffrents about "fe/fe-core/src/main/java/org/apache/hadoop/hive/metastore/HiveMetaStoreClient.java" and "fe/be-java-extensions/preload-extensions/src/main/java/org/apache/hadoop/hive/metastore/HiveMetaStoreClient.java",???