[Enhance](ip)optimize priority_ network matching logic for be

[zddr]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

• If the user has configured the wrong priority_network, direct startup failure to avoid users mistakenly assuming that the configuration is correct
• If the user has not configured p_ n. Select only the first IP from the IPv4 list, rather than selecting from all IPs, to avoid users' servers not supporting IPv4

extends #23784

Further comments

If this is a relatively large or complex change, kick off the discussion at dev@doris.apache.org by explaining why you chose the solution you did and what alternatives you considered, etc...

[zddr]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 47.92 seconds
stream load tsv: 529 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 134 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 28.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 349K ops/s
storage size: 17162197453 Bytes

[dataroaring]

please describe changes in commit message and add ut if possible.

[github-actions]

clang-tidy made some suggestions

[zddr]

run beut

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 36.92% (7896/21388)
Line Coverage: 28.92% (63354/219040)
Region Coverage: 27.87% (32898/118052)
Branch Coverage: 24.45% (16894/69096)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/37e3b82a9002eea294ac59a47e6c4e3997f1b6a2_37e3b82a9002eea294ac59a47e6c4e3997f1b6a2/report/index.html

[zddr]

run beut

[github-actions]

clang-tidy made some suggestions

[zddr]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 36.93% (7898/21389)
Line Coverage: 28.94% (63390/219049)
Region Coverage: 27.88% (32914/118043)
Branch Coverage: 24.47% (16905/69096)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/cb7c6672dfabefde48b09f311f47d0236d0b2080_cb7c6672dfabefde48b09f311f47d0236d0b2080/report/index.html

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 48.15 seconds
stream load tsv: 533 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 133 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.8 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 335K ops/s
storage size: 17162220188 Bytes

[morningman]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[zddr]

run buildall

[morningman]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.3 seconds
stream load tsv: 584 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 122 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.2 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 342K ops/s
storage size: 17162211266 Bytes

[zddr]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 36.93% (7915/21434)
Line Coverage: 28.96% (63603/219633)
Region Coverage: 27.88% (32986/118330)
Branch Coverage: 24.45% (16937/69268)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/ab79476b329cc1ffe8b1325659902a1963f54a43_ab79476b329cc1ffe8b1325659902a1963f54a43/report/index.html

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 48.62 seconds
stream load tsv: 586 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 121 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.0 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 344K ops/s
storage size: 17162172744 Bytes

[hf200012]

LGTM