[refactor](nereids)align node id in explain with nereids node id

[englefly]

Proposed changes

it is painful to align explain node and explain physical node, since they use two different sets of node IDs.
This pr makes 'explain' command use node IDs of their correspond node in 'explain physical plan'
Issue Number: close #xxx

Further comments

If this is a relatively large or complex change, kick off the discussion at dev@doris.apache.org by explaining why you chose the solution you did and what alternatives you considered, etc...

[englefly]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.85 seconds
stream load tsv: 568 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 125 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 28.8 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 347K ops/s
storage size: 17162470154 Bytes

[englefly]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.48 seconds
stream load tsv: 560 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 127 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 28.9 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 346K ops/s
storage size: 17162148481 Bytes

[englefly]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 47.54 seconds
stream load tsv: 557 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 128 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 28.9 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 346K ops/s
storage size: 17162226090 Bytes

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.