[fix](merge-on-write) fix schema change may result in delete bitmap incorrect (#29386)

[liaoxin01]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx
pick from #29386

Further comments

If this is a relatively large or complex change, kick off the discussion at dev@doris.apache.org by explaining why you chose the solution you did and what alternatives you considered, etc...

[liaoxin01]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[liaoxin01]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[dataroaring]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[dataroaring]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 51.22 seconds
stream load tsv: 563 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 126 MB/s
stream load json: 22 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 102 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 337K ops/s
storage size: 17163262197 Bytes

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.84% (8020/21193)
Line Coverage: 29.53% (65258/220994)
Region Coverage: 28.97% (33543/115774)
Branch Coverage: 24.83% (17210/69320)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/754bc2a287778a3a380b6e4ba7b17afbb581d184_754bc2a287778a3a380b6e4ba7b17afbb581d184/report/index.html

[liaoxin01]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.83% (8018/21193)
Line Coverage: 29.52% (65232/220994)
Region Coverage: 28.96% (33524/115774)
Branch Coverage: 24.81% (17201/69320)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/754bc2a287778a3a380b6e4ba7b17afbb581d184_754bc2a287778a3a380b6e4ba7b17afbb581d184/report/index.html

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 50.35 seconds
stream load tsv: 563 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 126 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.4 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 340K ops/s
storage size: 17162434109 Bytes

[liaoxin01]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.83% (8018/21193)
Line Coverage: 29.52% (65229/220994)
Region Coverage: 28.96% (33525/115774)
Branch Coverage: 24.82% (17202/69320)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/20e37f26d114c0c67f82eb831cf4ba6f8aaaf3de_20e37f26d114c0c67f82eb831cf4ba6f8aaaf3de/report/index.html

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 49.99 seconds
stream load tsv: 564 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 126 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 30.1 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 332K ops/s
storage size: 17162598968 Bytes

[dataroaring]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.83% (8018/21193)
Line Coverage: 29.52% (65235/220996)
Region Coverage: 28.96% (33523/115774)
Branch Coverage: 24.81% (17201/69320)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/a5c625f632c719438a976432b166c8e7d94a0c13_a5c625f632c719438a976432b166c8e7d94a0c13/report/index.html

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 47.36 seconds
stream load tsv: 564 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 126 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 66 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 15 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.8 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 335K ops/s
storage size: 17162661918 Bytes