[fix] (schema change) ignore the error of repeatedly writing rowset during schema change (#29733)

[luwei16]

master #29733

[luwei16]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.82% (8019/21202)
Line Coverage: 29.49% (65242/221244)
Region Coverage: 28.93% (33532/115907)
Branch Coverage: 24.79% (17203/69406)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/4c97a2b642d58b73857586fec51940af3c1e6880_4c97a2b642d58b73857586fec51940af3c1e6880/report/index.html

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.42 seconds
stream load tsv: 585 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 121 MB/s
stream load json: 19 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 118 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.7 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 336K ops/s
storage size: 17162213044 Bytes

[dataroaring]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.