[fix](spill) use different algorithm to avoid partition data skew

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Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

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clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

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Function Coverage: 35.18% (8920/25352)
Line Coverage: 26.97% (73347/271976)
Region Coverage: 26.15% (37895/144939)
Branch Coverage: 22.96% (19291/84012)
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TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 187550 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit ebf6656d458444ff94dabc52267536392d9f450b, data reload: false

query1	913	370	341	341
query2	6170	2397	2193	2193
query3	6658	199	201	199
query4	23117	21931	21786	21786
query5	3894	421	431	421
query6	293	179	191	179
query7	4537	285	278	278
query8	240	190	188	188
query9	8536	2357	2341	2341
query10	408	243	248	243
query11	15288	14854	14761	14761
query12	122	88	84	84
query13	1685	356	351	351
query14	10620	8454	7057	7057
query15	251	182	172	172
query16	8240	269	253	253
query17	1958	570	554	554
query18	2099	271	280	271
query19	324	151	144	144
query20	88	81	82	81
query21	195	124	118	118
query22	5062	4829	4824	4824
query23	33921	33421	33019	33019
query24	10705	2971	2952	2952
query25	614	388	374	374
query26	1153	152	150	150
query27	2406	315	310	310
query28	7206	2007	1974	1974
query29	864	627	617	617
query30	250	151	157	151
query31	917	748	713	713
query32	91	53	55	53
query33	741	244	239	239
query34	1030	466	474	466
query35	812	686	662	662
query36	1048	885	886	885
query37	132	67	68	67
query38	3136	2999	2977	2977
query39	1590	1662	1537	1537
query40	184	130	124	124
query41	43	42	42	42
query42	103	94	94	94
query43	542	542	518	518
query44	1240	732	726	726
query45	288	272	259	259
query46	1071	710	723	710
query47	1906	1846	1866	1846
query48	373	296	296	296
query49	844	398	403	398
query50	777	371	378	371
query51	6859	6828	6738	6738
query52	107	93	103	93
query53	352	273	272	272
query54	319	238	241	238
query55	77	73	71	71
query56	247	227	227	227
query57	1229	1105	1126	1105
query58	232	203	202	202
query59	3385	3378	3333	3333
query60	266	236	234	234
query61	109	104	104	104
query62	662	438	453	438
query63	307	280	283	280
query64	9509	7118	7110	7110
query65	3044	3039	3078	3039
query66	1377	326	323	323
query67	15732	15054	15064	15054
query68	10488	547	526	526
query69	592	298	308	298
query70	1351	1062	1100	1062
query71	525	266	269	266
query72	8804	2652	2458	2458
query73	1570	316	318	316
query74	6584	6269	6208	6208
query75	5186	2722	2701	2701
query76	5870	1062	973	973
query77	662	259	273	259
query78	11391	11049	10664	10664
query79	12492	542	540	540
query80	4081	433	440	433
query81	809	229	240	229
query82	206	92	95	92
query83	244	171	175	171
query84	273	91	94	91
query85	1238	288	307	288
query86	357	319	313	313
query87	3488	3272	3169	3169
query88	6435	2357	2362	2357
query89	515	355	375	355
query90	2352	182	179	179
query91	121	98	96	96
query92	73	49	45	45
query93	8723	509	493	493
query94	2694	179	197	179
query95	873	297	307	297
query96	612	270	268	268
query97	3125	2914	2916	2914
query98	228	218	225	218
query99	1087	862	866	862
Total cold run time: 321547 ms
Total hot run time: 187550 ms

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PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

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PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.