[cherry-pick]Add workload metric query_be_memory

[wangbo]

Proposed changes

pick #35662

mysql [information_schema]>select * from workload_policy;
+-------+------------------+------------------------------------+--------------+----------+---------+---------+----------------+
| ID | NAME | CONDITION | ACTION | PRIORITY | ENABLED | VERSION | WORKLOAD_GROUP |
+-------+------------------+------------------------------------+--------------+----------+---------+---------+----------------+
| 11020 | cancel_query_mem | query_be_memory_bytes >= 524288000 | cancel_query | 0 | 0 | 1 | |
+-------+------------------+------------------------------------+--------------+----------+---------+---------+----------------+
1 row in set (0.01 sec)

{
"TxnId": 2,
"Label": "hits",
"Comment": "",
"TwoPhaseCommit": "false",
"Status": "Fail",
"Message": "[INTERNAL_ERROR]cancelled: query 1e483ee97b04d9ec-5bdd0aa1b40ab799 cancelled by workload policy: cancel_query_mem, id:11020",
"NumberTotalRows": 463296,
"NumberLoadedRows": 463296,
"NumberFilteredRows": 0,
"NumberUnselectedRows": 0,
"LoadBytes": 398295040,
"LoadTimeMs": 130281,
"BeginTxnTimeMs": 16,
"StreamLoadPutTimeMs": 190,
"ReadDataTimeMs": 3349,
"WriteDataTimeMs": 3480,
"CommitAndPublishTimeMs": 0
}

I20240605 15:13:37.930701 3512264 query_context.cpp:122] Query 1e483ee97b04d9ec-5bdd0aa1b40ab799 deconstructed, , deregister query/load memory tracker, queryId=1e483ee97b04d9ec-5bdd0aa1b40ab799, Limit=2.00 GB, CurrUsed=460.71 MB, PeakUsed=551.86 MB

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clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"