[fix](load) skip sending cancel rpc if VNodeChannel is not inited (#34897)

[kaijchen]

cherry-pick #34897

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run buildall

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clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

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TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.88% (8113/21419)
Line Coverage: 29.55% (66489/224997)
Region Coverage: 29.01% (34261/118084)
Branch Coverage: 24.89% (17598/70716)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/e1e964488ad135cd7bf87fb6da610652a1ca94ea_e1e964488ad135cd7bf87fb6da610652a1ca94ea/report/index.html

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TPC-H: Total hot run time: 49854 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit e1e964488ad135cd7bf87fb6da610652a1ca94ea, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17915	4341	4292	4292
q2	2058	152	155	152
q3	10271	1904	1883	1883
q4	10346	1253	1316	1253
q5	8753	3873	3933	3873
q6	228	145	125	125
q7	2064	1585	1623	1585
q8	9296	2734	2698	2698
q9	10613	10344	10335	10335
q10	8689	3535	3498	3498
q11	415	245	251	245
q12	473	307	304	304
q13	18358	3969	4039	3969
q14	358	319	336	319
q15	501	461	456	456
q16	679	576	583	576
q17	1138	939	945	939
q18	7217	6841	6906	6841
q19	1776	1670	1629	1629
q20	562	303	314	303
q21	4378	4155	4137	4137
q22	530	442	450	442
Total cold run time: 116618 ms
Total hot run time: 49854 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	4332	4276	4371	4276
q2	322	231	225	225
q3	4157	4133	4133	4133
q4	2734	2734	2739	2734
q5	7207	7098	7125	7098
q6	233	119	119	119
q7	3263	2854	2854	2854
q8	4377	4475	4490	4475
q9	16898	16755	16799	16755
q10	4249	4254	4302	4254
q11	750	681	701	681
q12	1024	882	870	870
q13	7172	3769	3715	3715
q14	448	428	420	420
q15	495	457	456	456
q16	739	671	688	671
q17	3848	3818	3858	3818
q18	8817	8786	8854	8786
q19	1722	1723	1663	1663
q20	2349	2096	2114	2096
q21	8513	8503	8390	8390
q22	1018	983	980	980
Total cold run time: 84667 ms
Total hot run time: 79469 ms

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TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 203326 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit e1e964488ad135cd7bf87fb6da610652a1ca94ea, data reload: false

query1	951	416	381	381
query2	6537	2842	2750	2750
query3	6915	210	195	195
query4	21284	18063	18093	18063
query5	19740	6491	6554	6491
query6	289	220	224	220
query7	4158	306	317	306
query8	425	465	421	421
query9	3109	2655	2581	2581
query10	416	307	302	302
query11	11330	10711	10653	10653
query12	122	74	74	74
query13	5608	699	708	699
query14	17361	13765	13437	13437
query15	360	255	241	241
query16	6469	285	258	258
query17	1712	1438	886	886
query18	2317	410	405	405
query19	214	151	152	151
query20	76	79	77	77
query21	194	97	92	92
query22	5234	4967	5007	4967
query23	32399	31952	31922	31922
query24	6967	6547	6575	6547
query25	525	431	442	431
query26	512	163	158	158
query27	1762	302	298	298
query28	6121	2341	2297	2297
query29	2995	2768	2825	2768
query30	244	168	168	168
query31	900	732	775	732
query32	66	65	62	62
query33	405	258	252	252
query34	836	472	480	472
query35	1132	945	932	932
query36	1251	1102	1096	1096
query37	89	59	59	59
query38	3121	2927	2964	2927
query39	1392	1313	1328	1313
query40	208	97	93	93
query41	47	45	44	44
query42	87	84	82	82
query43	706	632	670	632
query44	1190	731	723	723
query45	252	245	237	237
query46	1261	986	996	986
query47	1756	1765	1758	1758
query48	1023	707	707	707
query49	621	373	385	373
query50	859	617	626	617
query51	4750	4643	4700	4643
query52	97	76	94	76
query53	452	324	321	321
query54	2689	2486	2468	2468
query55	83	80	76	76
query56	236	227	215	215
query57	1091	1040	1092	1040
query58	221	210	197	197
query59	4130	3919	4087	3919
query60	212	209	218	209
query61	97	97	96	96
query62	815	464	466	464
query63	488	354	346	346
query64	2508	1563	1472	1472
query65	3617	3562	3546	3546
query66	770	377	378	377
query67	16416	14997	15448	14997
query68	9376	660	648	648
query69	586	361	347	347
query70	1589	1447	1220	1220
query71	418	314	317	314
query72	6565	3478	3491	3478
query73	739	315	323	315
query74	6257	5939	5926	5926
query75	5449	3722	3633	3633
query76	5822	1180	1164	1164
query77	977	265	258	258
query78	12476	11940	11599	11599
query79	7209	642	642	642
query80	1196	412	394	394
query81	496	240	234	234
query82	1440	98	95	95
query83	192	135	132	132
query84	264	73	72	72
query85	876	329	328	328
query86	344	288	313	288
query87	3265	3051	3053	3051
query88	4546	2317	2329	2317
query89	373	276	281	276
query90	1976	199	187	187
query91	170	134	138	134
query92	60	58	53	53
query93	5650	582	614	582
query94	706	212	211	211
query95	1102	1071	1043	1043
query96	646	328	326	326
query97	6517	6369	6281	6281
query98	196	184	181	181
query99	2907	1004	799	799
Total cold run time: 312605 ms
Total hot run time: 203326 ms

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ClickBench: Total hot run time: 30.98 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit e1e964488ad135cd7bf87fb6da610652a1ca94ea, data reload: false

query1	0.02	0.02	0.02
query2	0.06	0.03	0.02
query3	0.25	0.06	0.05
query4	1.78	0.07	0.07
query5	0.54	0.52	0.53
query6	1.24	0.61	0.68
query7	0.01	0.02	0.02
query8	0.03	0.02	0.03
query9	0.52	0.48	0.48
query10	0.53	0.53	0.55
query11	0.12	0.08	0.08
query12	0.11	0.09	0.09
query13	0.63	0.61	0.61
query14	0.78	0.81	0.79
query15	0.78	0.77	0.76
query16	0.37	0.36	0.36
query17	1.02	0.99	0.97
query18	0.22	0.26	0.24
query19	1.91	1.88	1.84
query20	0.01	0.01	0.01
query21	15.47	0.56	0.54
query22	2.36	2.45	1.72
query23	16.85	0.90	0.98
query24	4.66	1.67	1.31
query25	0.39	0.12	0.04
query26	0.59	0.16	0.16
query27	0.04	0.04	0.04
query28	7.60	0.77	0.72
query29	12.70	2.24	2.10
query30	0.57	0.52	0.57
query31	2.80	0.40	0.37
query32	3.35	0.50	0.50
query33	3.07	3.07	3.12
query34	15.25	4.79	4.78
query35	4.89	4.87	4.86
query36	1.03	1.01	1.02
query37	0.06	0.05	0.04
query38	0.03	0.02	0.02
query39	0.01	0.01	0.02
query40	0.16	0.14	0.14
query41	0.07	0.02	0.01
query42	0.02	0.01	0.02
query43	0.02	0.02	0.02
Total cold run time: 102.92 s
Total hot run time: 30.98 s

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Load test result on machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'

Load test result on commit e1e964488ad135cd7bf87fb6da610652a1ca94ea with default session variables
Stream load json:         19 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 118 MB/s
Stream load orc:          58 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 18 MB/s
Stream load parquet:      31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
Insert into select:       21.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 462K ops/s