[fix](partial update) fix a mem leak issue (#37706)

[zhannngchen]

cherry-pick #37706

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run buildall

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clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

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TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.90% (8118/21421)
Line Coverage: 29.55% (66536/225159)
Region Coverage: 29.02% (34296/118173)
Branch Coverage: 24.89% (17618/70778)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/84fa70f2f6e0f30e2a8eca95ef235c47e3fe036c_84fa70f2f6e0f30e2a8eca95ef235c47e3fe036c/report/index.html

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TPC-H: Total hot run time: 49986 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 84fa70f2f6e0f30e2a8eca95ef235c47e3fe036c, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17735	4373	4346	4346
q2	2079	152	148	148
q3	10444	1888	1943	1888
q4	10326	1275	1330	1275
q5	8547	3932	3953	3932
q6	230	147	123	123
q7	2074	1635	1604	1604
q8	9564	2729	2719	2719
q9	13839	10630	10415	10415
q10	8628	3523	3486	3486
q11	419	250	248	248
q12	473	307	300	300
q13	18353	4023	4083	4023
q14	385	327	340	327
q15	504	459	482	459
q16	701	585	600	585
q17	1130	938	942	938
q18	7291	6815	6894	6815
q19	1769	1643	1602	1602
q20	539	313	310	310
q21	4453	4159	4003	4003
q22	553	441	440	440
Total cold run time: 120036 ms
Total hot run time: 49986 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	4293	4280	4252	4252
q2	323	220	223	220
q3	4150	4112	4152	4112
q4	2742	2743	2739	2739
q5	7239	7125	7121	7121
q6	237	119	122	119
q7	3215	2804	2879	2804
q8	4385	4495	4499	4495
q9	17511	17322	17193	17193
q10	4260	4351	4275	4275
q11	747	680	689	680
q12	1036	872	865	865
q13	7939	3755	3767	3755
q14	451	429	436	429
q15	505	456	468	456
q16	749	689	691	689
q17	3911	3776	3891	3776
q18	8963	9029	9252	9029
q19	1745	1721	1728	1721
q20	2448	2251	2254	2251
q21	8793	8600	8539	8539
q22	1100	990	1045	990
Total cold run time: 86742 ms
Total hot run time: 80510 ms

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TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 203222 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 84fa70f2f6e0f30e2a8eca95ef235c47e3fe036c, data reload: false

query1	927	418	374	374
query2	6534	2871	2386	2386
query3	6923	208	201	201
query4	20092	18053	17925	17925
query5	19742	6494	6472	6472
query6	398	226	230	226
query7	4878	297	310	297
query8	442	431	444	431
query9	3081	2635	2593	2593
query10	417	309	295	295
query11	11388	10906	10778	10778
query12	129	75	71	71
query13	5596	698	693	693
query14	18808	13720	13120	13120
query15	378	239	260	239
query16	6437	295	267	267
query17	1574	1474	879	879
query18	2296	414	410	410
query19	216	151	153	151
query20	80	81	78	78
query21	190	99	93	93
query22	5346	5110	5101	5101
query23	32415	31938	31929	31929
query24	6773	6474	6438	6438
query25	529	425	423	423
query26	524	165	159	159
query27	1783	294	293	293
query28	6158	2375	2323	2323
query29	2919	2710	2816	2710
query30	243	177	167	167
query31	935	740	761	740
query32	74	67	62	62
query33	398	258	267	258
query34	841	472	480	472
query35	1152	970	913	913
query36	1335	1270	1427	1270
query37	94	61	63	61
query38	3104	2944	2928	2928
query39	1376	1297	1332	1297
query40	211	102	96	96
query41	47	44	43	43
query42	94	79	89	79
query43	683	672	704	672
query44	1139	742	734	734
query45	243	237	237	237
query46	1214	961	991	961
query47	2147	1729	1822	1729
query48	1003	715	685	685
query49	628	373	383	373
query50	859	636	605	605
query51	4778	4636	4667	4636
query52	103	82	91	82
query53	451	324	320	320
query54	2671	2452	2480	2452
query55	100	81	91	81
query56	227	221	214	214
query57	1203	1147	1039	1039
query58	209	186	214	186
query59	3918	3782	3838	3782
query60	212	201	188	188
query61	106	96	120	96
query62	822	450	470	450
query63	487	343	355	343
query64	2427	1527	1458	1458
query65	3590	3571	3547	3547
query66	806	380	376	376
query67	15559	15332	14977	14977
query68	9878	674	649	649
query69	580	363	359	359
query70	1740	1452	1486	1452
query71	426	306	317	306
query72	6649	3534	3495	3495
query73	739	334	330	330
query74	6308	5865	5903	5865
query75	5465	3717	3754	3717
query76	6221	1173	1162	1162
query77	1054	266	253	253
query78	12757	11827	12012	11827
query79	7306	666	630	630
query80	1095	408	405	405
query81	490	233	233	233
query82	1724	106	105	105
query83	168	148	134	134
query84	261	74	72	72
query85	903	339	343	339
query86	335	316	307	307
query87	3252	3044	3144	3044
query88	4688	2336	2330	2330
query89	377	296	303	296
query90	1946	216	211	211
query91	189	139	138	138
query92	66	54	54	54
query93	5364	583	580	580
query94	705	213	218	213
query95	1123	1060	1036	1036
query96	636	335	336	335
query97	6629	6380	6378	6378
query98	199	176	180	176
query99	3016	1025	827	827
Total cold run time: 314751 ms
Total hot run time: 203222 ms

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ClickBench: Total hot run time: 30.65 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 84fa70f2f6e0f30e2a8eca95ef235c47e3fe036c, data reload: false

query1	0.02	0.02	0.03
query2	0.07	0.03	0.02
query3	0.25	0.05	0.05
query4	1.81	0.07	0.06
query5	0.54	0.52	0.52
query6	1.27	0.62	0.62
query7	0.02	0.01	0.01
query8	0.03	0.03	0.02
query9	0.52	0.49	0.48
query10	0.53	0.54	0.53
query11	0.12	0.09	0.09
query12	0.12	0.09	0.10
query13	0.62	0.62	0.61
query14	0.78	0.78	0.80
query15	0.78	0.77	0.77
query16	0.36	0.36	0.36
query17	1.02	1.03	1.01
query18	0.24	0.25	0.25
query19	1.89	1.88	1.85
query20	0.01	0.01	0.02
query21	15.48	0.54	0.55
query22	2.03	2.40	1.82
query23	17.38	0.91	1.00
query24	4.93	0.77	5.85
query25	0.38	0.09	0.05
query26	0.97	0.15	0.16
query27	0.04	0.05	0.04
query28	3.68	0.76	0.71
query29	12.61	2.32	2.16
query30	0.62	0.53	0.54
query31	2.82	0.39	0.38
query32	3.37	0.50	0.50
query33	3.10	3.04	3.08
query34	15.23	4.80	4.79
query35	4.86	4.84	4.86
query36	1.06	1.02	1.02
query37	0.06	0.04	0.05
query38	0.03	0.03	0.02
query39	0.02	0.02	0.01
query40	0.16	0.14	0.14
query41	0.06	0.01	0.02
query42	0.02	0.02	0.01
query43	0.02	0.02	0.02
Total cold run time: 99.93 s
Total hot run time: 30.65 s

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Load test result on machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'

Load test result on commit 84fa70f2f6e0f30e2a8eca95ef235c47e3fe036c with default session variables
Stream load json:         20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
Stream load orc:          59 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 17 MB/s
Stream load parquet:      31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
Insert into select:       21.4 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 467K ops/s