branch-3.0: [enhance](mtmv)When drop MTMV, no longer wait for task cancel to complete #45995

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Cherry-picked from #45995

[Thearas]

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[Thearas]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40816 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit d0ff441a8f910843ce94c9b6a4706dccc336993f, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17610	7485	7332	7332
q2	2051	173	168	168
q3	10546	1119	1159	1119
q4	10216	756	712	712
q5	7732	2848	2808	2808
q6	232	145	150	145
q7	948	614	598	598
q8	9354	1978	2003	1978
q9	6607	6404	6465	6404
q10	7027	2305	2312	2305
q11	463	268	263	263
q12	405	211	213	211
q13	17768	3020	2997	2997
q14	244	210	213	210
q15	571	525	527	525
q16	673	620	606	606
q17	957	556	531	531
q18	7279	6763	6584	6584
q19	1393	1081	952	952
q20	495	205	208	205
q21	4203	3195	3239	3195
q22	1101	968	1010	968
Total cold run time: 107875 ms
Total hot run time: 40816 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7296	7272	7283	7272
q2	330	243	230	230
q3	2888	2765	2775	2765
q4	1921	1719	1686	1686
q5	5418	5448	5456	5448
q6	223	138	136	136
q7	2083	1722	1695	1695
q8	3211	3370	3386	3370
q9	8599	8534	8575	8534
q10	3469	3431	3435	3431
q11	600	484	504	484
q12	786	569	582	569
q13	14277	2997	2998	2997
q14	294	258	265	258
q15	553	520	515	515
q16	693	659	679	659
q17	1793	1561	1559	1559
q18	7632	7327	7332	7327
q19	1633	1646	1541	1541
q20	2060	1828	1814	1814
q21	5462	5264	5206	5206
q22	1108	1011	1022	1011
Total cold run time: 72329 ms
Total hot run time: 58507 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 192686 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit d0ff441a8f910843ce94c9b6a4706dccc336993f, data reload: false

query1	966	365	357	357
query2	6552	2161	2090	2090
query3	6703	215	221	215
query4	34248	23554	23558	23554
query5	4350	460	434	434
query6	271	178	182	178
query7	4630	313	308	308
query8	297	230	231	230
query9	9623	2672	2670	2670
query10	462	276	256	256
query11	18158	15207	15292	15207
query12	155	107	101	101
query13	1635	433	424	424
query14	10020	7634	7461	7461
query15	310	175	184	175
query16	7464	418	517	418
query17	1765	549	554	549
query18	1977	301	303	301
query19	368	150	140	140
query20	114	106	108	106
query21	64	45	43	43
query22	4418	4151	4276	4151
query23	34782	34288	34441	34288
query24	11152	2784	2852	2784
query25	641	391	398	391
query26	1499	168	168	168
query27	2623	303	302	302
query28	7912	2474	2453	2453
query29	883	422	415	415
query30	324	173	162	162
query31	1032	807	801	801
query32	93	56	58	56
query33	779	290	273	273
query34	967	488	510	488
query35	859	744	714	714
query36	1104	945	947	945
query37	121	73	73	73
query38	4037	3917	3936	3917
query39	1451	1456	1431	1431
query40	219	83	82	82
query41	53	50	50	50
query42	120	102	96	96
query43	534	500	481	481
query44	1351	816	825	816
query45	181	167	171	167
query46	1134	720	709	709
query47	1939	1813	1807	1807
query48	465	376	374	374
query49	1212	384	410	384
query50	814	407	401	401
query51	7308	7119	6989	6989
query52	100	92	93	92
query53	258	189	183	183
query54	1255	464	463	463
query55	82	76	78	76
query56	319	256	252	252
query57	1235	1082	1128	1082
query58	237	209	213	209
query59	3406	3044	3233	3044
query60	287	274	267	267
query61	134	134	128	128
query62	862	671	679	671
query63	229	194	189	189
query64	5345	736	719	719
query65	3341	3229	3214	3214
query66	1484	336	333	333
query67	16129	15595	15573	15573
query68	4523	575	558	558
query69	449	275	268	268
query70	1194	1151	1106	1106
query71	426	257	254	254
query72	6784	4048	4063	4048
query73	766	339	348	339
query74	10470	9091	8966	8966
query75	3398	2666	2654	2654
query76	2865	1061	1105	1061
query77	392	275	275	275
query78	10469	9639	9616	9616
query79	1848	616	622	616
query80	1031	442	433	433
query81	547	246	241	241
query82	917	119	120	119
query83	225	149	143	143
query84	248	90	83	83
query85	1320	308	291	291
query86	429	304	307	304
query87	4372	4373	4330	4330
query88	3583	2406	2357	2357
query89	395	291	302	291
query90	2036	189	185	185
query91	186	149	148	148
query92	67	50	52	50
query93	1423	553	549	549
query94	920	288	286	286
query95	352	266	262	262
query96	605	286	283	283
query97	3336	3184	3171	3171
query98	213	205	197	197
query99	1540	1327	1322	1322
Total cold run time: 302171 ms
Total hot run time: 192686 ms