branch-3.0: [fix](Nereids) insert lock all target tables #47033

[morrySnow]

pick from master #47033

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[morrySnow]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40820 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 05fc58c5bf6486434fb7145faddbbeb211aafc92, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17638	7340	7229	7229
q2	2075	181	157	157
q3	10627	1035	1204	1035
q4	10557	747	735	735
q5	7719	2832	2734	2734
q6	241	149	143	143
q7	979	609	606	606
q8	9362	1944	1996	1944
q9	6615	6391	6423	6391
q10	6999	2264	2309	2264
q11	473	267	261	261
q12	397	208	205	205
q13	17801	2949	2997	2949
q14	250	210	209	209
q15	572	517	527	517
q16	678	602	619	602
q17	977	538	641	538
q18	7327	6814	6812	6812
q19	1419	1063	1075	1063
q20	479	213	202	202
q21	4118	3323	3224	3224
q22	1112	1004	1000	1000
Total cold run time: 108415 ms
Total hot run time: 40820 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7220	7241	7222	7222
q2	332	234	230	230
q3	2886	2965	2884	2884
q4	2065	1875	1781	1781
q5	5718	5761	5664	5664
q6	221	140	149	140
q7	2205	1817	1826	1817
q8	3360	3539	3504	3504
q9	8846	8856	8780	8780
q10	3565	3550	3558	3550
q11	621	508	509	508
q12	818	625	602	602
q13	10717	3147	3143	3143
q14	311	273	270	270
q15	585	534	522	522
q16	711	672	683	672
q17	1851	1634	1550	1550
q18	8121	7837	7710	7710
q19	1669	1611	1601	1601
q20	2116	1860	1863	1860
q21	5552	5304	5381	5304
q22	1145	1030	1005	1005
Total cold run time: 70635 ms
Total hot run time: 60319 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 197483 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 05fc58c5bf6486434fb7145faddbbeb211aafc92, data reload: false

query1	1343	937	911	911
query2	6252	2066	2013	2013
query3	10789	4251	4131	4131
query4	66151	28534	23580	23580
query5	4987	467	477	467
query6	405	183	192	183
query7	5527	308	301	301
query8	309	221	225	221
query9	8730	2676	2650	2650
query10	437	290	253	253
query11	16862	15276	15784	15276
query12	163	105	108	105
query13	1490	450	440	440
query14	10018	6779	7384	6779
query15	210	185	187	185
query16	7252	528	550	528
query17	1102	602	602	602
query18	1841	326	339	326
query19	222	166	164	164
query20	120	109	110	109
query21	208	106	104	104
query22	4819	4430	4514	4430
query23	35503	34229	34362	34229
query24	6187	2936	2986	2936
query25	547	435	427	427
query26	675	171	174	171
query27	1925	364	356	356
query28	4164	2527	2451	2451
query29	700	487	484	484
query30	238	196	164	164
query31	1006	811	829	811
query32	78	54	58	54
query33	450	298	278	278
query34	944	521	535	521
query35	867	738	722	722
query36	1082	991	958	958
query37	128	80	73	73
query38	4097	4192	4025	4025
query39	1514	1467	1480	1467
query40	198	104	104	104
query41	50	48	57	48
query42	109	100	99	99
query43	534	486	494	486
query44	1184	829	821	821
query45	184	168	172	168
query46	1149	726	772	726
query47	1985	1925	1951	1925
query48	478	387	378	378
query49	722	396	393	393
query50	867	456	439	439
query51	7460	7268	7148	7148
query52	103	90	94	90
query53	253	179	183	179
query54	548	449	453	449
query55	75	74	73	73
query56	278	252	251	251
query57	1259	1104	1110	1104
query58	203	205	199	199
query59	3260	2964	3141	2964
query60	286	250	254	250
query61	109	107	108	107
query62	768	671	650	650
query63	214	204	193	193
query64	1396	679	650	650
query65	3247	3163	3197	3163
query66	714	293	303	293
query67	16139	15644	15975	15644
query68	3737	598	562	562
query69	438	284	265	265
query70	1169	1138	1129	1129
query71	374	253	257	253
query72	6065	4070	4043	4043
query73	757	349	346	346
query74	10168	9046	8958	8958
query75	3391	2656	2680	2656
query76	1922	1048	1023	1023
query77	479	275	269	269
query78	10519	9661	9594	9594
query79	2081	593	597	593
query80	1389	417	410	410
query81	545	250	238	238
query82	1288	122	118	118
query83	272	142	144	142
query84	286	81	86	81
query85	1013	296	283	283
query86	425	293	256	256
query87	4556	4267	4294	4267
query88	4049	2374	2374	2374
query89	429	294	296	294
query90	1966	190	188	188
query91	179	150	149	149
query92	64	49	50	49
query93	2811	545	549	545
query94	865	297	291	291
query95	358	254	249	249
query96	611	283	280	280
query97	3299	3234	3224	3224
query98	218	198	197	197
query99	1611	1308	1278	1278
Total cold run time: 320448 ms
Total hot run time: 197483 ms