branch-3.0: [fix](memory) Fix WorkloadGroup memory GC cancel msg #47367

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Cherry-picked from #47367

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run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 41329 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit ae937afc97de3ffe23a6db5786e2123463b92e1f, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17568	7619	7267	7267
q2	2368	169	159	159
q3	11448	1184	1197	1184
q4	10366	754	719	719
q5	8092	2942	2942	2942
q6	238	152	146	146
q7	977	630	612	612
q8	9428	1981	2103	1981
q9	6854	6485	6424	6424
q10	6945	2312	2334	2312
q11	463	274	276	274
q12	400	214	209	209
q13	17766	3005	2982	2982
q14	237	212	209	209
q15	562	530	514	514
q16	648	586	608	586
q17	982	553	557	553
q18	7370	6863	6733	6733
q19	1395	1069	1069	1069
q20	494	212	208	208
q21	4284	3256	3309	3256
q22	1127	990	990	990
Total cold run time: 110012 ms
Total hot run time: 41329 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7364	7219	7215	7215
q2	334	242	235	235
q3	3261	3047	3000	3000
q4	2081	1920	1864	1864
q5	5829	5745	5683	5683
q6	221	135	135	135
q7	2188	1830	1884	1830
q8	3356	3506	3445	3445
q9	8942	8905	8866	8866
q10	3638	3574	3609	3574
q11	593	513	544	513
q12	795	632	581	581
q13	4202	3171	3159	3159
q14	300	260	283	260
q15	579	539	533	533
q16	682	679	639	639
q17	1816	1604	1591	1591
q18	8237	7884	7548	7548
q19	1658	1591	1590	1590
q20	2059	1820	1793	1793
q21	5451	5275	5177	5177
q22	1092	1008	1002	1002
Total cold run time: 64678 ms
Total hot run time: 60233 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 192640 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit ae937afc97de3ffe23a6db5786e2123463b92e1f, data reload: false

query1	957	377	377	377
query2	6527	2189	2094	2094
query3	6705	227	227	227
query4	34734	23612	23854	23612
query5	4792	485	463	463
query6	276	190	184	184
query7	4641	322	314	314
query8	282	224	221	221
query9	9610	2690	2691	2690
query10	500	267	257	257
query11	18364	15296	15419	15296
query12	150	103	102	102
query13	1637	427	411	411
query14	8903	7275	7912	7275
query15	310	166	194	166
query16	8172	468	445	445
query17	1658	566	542	542
query18	2142	308	296	296
query19	377	148	151	148
query20	116	104	110	104
query21	202	99	101	99
query22	4450	4297	4415	4297
query23	34290	34112	33681	33681
query24	11230	2835	2904	2835
query25	668	388	390	388
query26	1397	165	165	165
query27	2923	344	341	341
query28	8046	2400	2421	2400
query29	916	432	422	422
query30	327	157	163	157
query31	1022	805	780	780
query32	92	58	56	56
query33	771	281	285	281
query34	971	485	509	485
query35	868	745	717	717
query36	1125	965	957	957
query37	143	75	75	75
query38	4066	3862	3922	3862
query39	1492	1430	1446	1430
query40	272	100	98	98
query41	61	48	52	48
query42	111	100	94	94
query43	536	505	497	497
query44	1235	791	790	790
query45	180	166	171	166
query46	1165	767	740	740
query47	1943	1849	1836	1836
query48	455	378	413	378
query49	1138	380	382	380
query50	822	418	419	418
query51	7395	7204	7210	7204
query52	102	95	93	93
query53	257	181	184	181
query54	1121	474	461	461
query55	78	77	74	74
query56	262	238	252	238
query57	1257	1136	1101	1101
query58	232	208	210	208
query59	3439	3050	2890	2890
query60	276	264	255	255
query61	143	111	116	111
query62	929	769	727	727
query63	225	197	192	192
query64	5216	772	770	770
query65	3295	3199	3160	3160
query66	1138	332	355	332
query67	16152	15424	15714	15424
query68	3550	576	570	570
query69	438	286	279	279
query70	1215	1138	1168	1138
query71	326	264	262	262
query72	6398	4191	4229	4191
query73	754	350	356	350
query74	10093	9088	9061	9061
query75	3432	2677	2657	2657
query76	2576	1150	1052	1052
query77	407	290	299	290
query78	10528	9788	9543	9543
query79	2455	607	603	603
query80	1196	438	428	428
query81	543	239	242	239
query82	715	124	121	121
query83	220	140	146	140
query84	245	82	82	82
query85	1661	309	295	295
query86	484	309	301	301
query87	4400	4288	4382	4288
query88	4120	2410	2364	2364
query89	405	295	306	295
query90	2051	186	188	186
query91	186	148	150	148
query92	65	54	54	54
query93	1507	555	544	544
query94	933	305	297	297
query95	379	264	263	263
query96	601	292	282	282
query97	3306	3198	3170	3170
query98	214	213	200	200
query99	1620	1438	1429	1429
Total cold run time: 302310 ms
Total hot run time: 192640 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 32.07 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit ae937afc97de3ffe23a6db5786e2123463b92e1f, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.02	0.03
query2	0.07	0.03	0.03
query3	0.23	0.06	0.06
query4	1.63	0.10	0.11
query5	0.53	0.50	0.53
query6	1.14	0.73	0.72
query7	0.02	0.04	0.01
query8	0.04	0.03	0.03
query9	0.56	0.49	0.49
query10	0.56	0.54	0.57
query11	0.14	0.10	0.10
query12	0.14	0.11	0.10
query13	0.60	0.59	0.59
query14	2.74	2.76	2.74
query15	0.91	0.84	0.83
query16	0.38	0.40	0.39
query17	1.00	1.05	1.03
query18	0.24	0.21	0.22
query19	1.98	1.78	2.02
query20	0.01	0.02	0.01
query21	15.35	0.59	0.59
query22	2.22	1.94	1.64
query23	16.96	1.11	0.73
query24	3.03	0.61	0.98
query25	0.28	0.09	0.09
query26	0.41	0.13	0.14
query27	0.04	0.05	0.04
query28	11.18	1.10	1.06
query29	12.60	3.24	3.24
query30	0.24	0.05	0.06
query31	2.86	0.38	0.38
query32	3.26	0.46	0.46
query33	3.03	3.02	3.06
query34	16.88	4.51	4.51
query35	4.56	4.46	4.48
query36	0.67	0.48	0.50
query37	0.10	0.06	0.06
query38	0.05	0.04	0.03
query39	0.04	0.02	0.03
query40	0.16	0.12	0.12
query41	0.07	0.02	0.02
query42	0.03	0.02	0.02
query43	0.04	0.04	0.03
Total cold run time: 107.01 s
Total hot run time: 32.07 s