[Bug] Fix coredump bug when create new tablets

[acelyc111]

Proposed changes

There is a bug may cause BE coredump when create tablet, the accessing of tablet_set of a data dir should be protected by lock.

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• I have create an issue on (Fix [Bug] BE coredump when create new tablet #5090), and have described the bug/feature there in detail
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[morningman]

LGTM