branch-3.0: [opt](Nereids) support defer materialization with project

[morrySnow]

pick from #47661 #47975 #48747

[morrySnow]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

Thank you for your contribution to Apache Doris.
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Please clearly describe your PR:

1. What problem was fixed (it's best to include specific error reporting information). How it was fixed.
2. Which behaviors were modified. What was the previous behavior, what is it now, why was it modified, and what possible impacts might there be.
3. What features were added. Why was this function added?
4. Which code was refactored and why was this part of the code refactored?
5. Which functions were optimized and what is the difference before and after the optimization?

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 39616 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit fedaeea12cf58810c02c939100ca6677434da386, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17603	6934	6593	6593
q2	2068	170	165	165
q3	10809	1030	1130	1030
q4	10515	758	812	758
q5	7724	2826	2823	2823
q6	213	136	129	129
q7	959	618	595	595
q8	9358	1951	1953	1951
q9	6609	6385	6399	6385
q10	6987	2289	2316	2289
q11	458	263	256	256
q12	398	212	209	209
q13	17786	2993	3014	2993
q14	229	206	206	206
q15	506	464	457	457
q16	487	375	366	366
q17	984	572	654	572
q18	7184	6539	6554	6539
q19	1405	1121	1066	1066
q20	461	203	192	192
q21	3863	3259	3100	3100
q22	1068	942	996	942
Total cold run time: 107674 ms
Total hot run time: 39616 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	6620	6600	6615	6600
q2	321	240	234	234
q3	2890	2795	2811	2795
q4	2015	1761	1849	1761
q5	5758	5743	5689	5689
q6	208	130	128	128
q7	2199	1779	1780	1779
q8	3348	3507	3504	3504
q9	8939	8769	8800	8769
q10	3578	3549	3484	3484
q11	591	493	505	493
q12	816	595	598	595
q13	9418	3178	3121	3121
q14	308	277	263	263
q15	512	455	461	455
q16	494	432	445	432
q17	1835	1611	1567	1567
q18	8392	7781	7833	7781
q19	1692	1659	1555	1555
q20	2107	1888	1829	1829
q21	5158	5114	4958	4958
q22	1108	1021	1013	1013
Total cold run time: 68307 ms
Total hot run time: 58805 ms

[dataroaring]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40165 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 81f12f5fa3428b3c6e982159d1a7c1f2189e235b, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17614	6960	6636	6636
q2	2075	177	165	165
q3	10636	1123	1201	1123
q4	10261	760	746	746
q5	7738	2957	2848	2848
q6	221	136	134	134
q7	985	640	609	609
q8	9588	1954	1966	1954
q9	7730	6439	6454	6439
q10	7040	2314	2317	2314
q11	461	270	271	270
q12	404	219	221	219
q13	17784	3062	3053	3053
q14	239	217	215	215
q15	512	487	468	468
q16	503	385	397	385
q17	1005	578	612	578
q18	7358	6580	6620	6580
q19	1404	1052	1116	1052
q20	501	205	206	205
q21	3964	3253	3171	3171
q22	1083	1001	1017	1001
Total cold run time: 109106 ms
Total hot run time: 40165 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	6660	7011	6594	6594
q2	328	236	232	232
q3	3040	2958	2919	2919
q4	2078	1837	1835	1835
q5	5759	5761	5785	5761
q6	215	133	135	133
q7	2200	1828	1795	1795
q8	3360	3610	3443	3443
q9	8917	8973	8889	8889
q10	3524	3579	3566	3566
q11	590	503	508	503
q12	789	589	570	570
q13	5452	3148	3170	3148
q14	301	275	273	273
q15	539	468	468	468
q16	481	457	447	447
q17	1859	1653	1604	1604
q18	8229	7751	7678	7678
q19	1685	1637	1499	1499
q20	2069	1928	1856	1856
q21	5261	5005	5143	5005
q22	1179	1058	1053	1053
Total cold run time: 64515 ms
Total hot run time: 59271 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 198184 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 81f12f5fa3428b3c6e982159d1a7c1f2189e235b, data reload: false

query1	1296	929	949	929
query2	6262	1897	1864	1864
query3	10948	4592	4543	4543
query4	32917	23572	23842	23572
query5	3404	490	469	469
query6	273	188	189	188
query7	3991	322	324	322
query8	294	224	225	224
query9	9586	2674	2674	2674
query10	455	278	261	261
query11	17828	15163	15282	15163
query12	158	106	104	104
query13	1554	443	428	428
query14	8925	7933	6729	6729
query15	265	195	190	190
query16	8065	495	487	487
query17	1627	619	586	586
query18	2170	336	353	336
query19	367	183	172	172
query20	130	117	118	117
query21	215	109	118	109
query22	4675	4504	4410	4410
query23	34635	34493	34400	34400
query24	11684	2975	2948	2948
query25	656	399	405	399
query26	1778	178	171	171
query27	2827	349	348	348
query28	7961	2144	2168	2144
query29	1016	446	445	445
query30	271	156	163	156
query31	1016	824	845	824
query32	98	62	60	60
query33	777	321	301	301
query34	942	525	513	513
query35	854	733	725	725
query36	1116	950	950	950
query37	247	69	69	69
query38	4049	3996	3977	3977
query39	1540	1481	1488	1481
query40	261	102	106	102
query41	51	49	49	49
query42	123	107	109	107
query43	535	501	498	498
query44	1321	835	845	835
query45	189	173	174	173
query46	1183	763	762	762
query47	1988	1884	1890	1884
query48	468	390	410	390
query49	1044	401	401	401
query50	857	438	434	434
query51	7469	7296	7205	7205
query52	108	97	93	93
query53	280	189	192	189
query54	1391	493	482	482
query55	79	78	81	78
query56	290	258	241	241
query57	1355	1207	1225	1207
query58	239	215	219	215
query59	3268	3262	3058	3058
query60	285	267	264	264
query61	111	163	126	126
query62	859	713	692	692
query63	237	198	201	198
query64	4957	701	653	653
query65	3362	3308	3329	3308
query66	1394	310	305	305
query67	16150	15776	15577	15577
query68	4839	597	611	597
query69	428	275	270	270
query70	1184	1080	1124	1080
query71	336	258	258	258
query72	6233	4187	3975	3975
query73	798	364	371	364
query74	10280	9366	8997	8997
query75	3422	2675	2684	2675
query76	2676	1112	1084	1084
query77	408	287	302	287
query78	10494	9636	9612	9612
query79	1241	637	610	610
query80	1098	468	462	462
query81	544	238	225	225
query82	919	99	95	95
query83	246	152	152	152
query84	245	85	86	85
query85	1391	369	369	369
query86	404	288	305	288
query87	4468	4362	4300	4300
query88	3739	2427	2412	2412
query89	413	301	298	298
query90	2004	192	189	189
query91	194	148	172	148
query92	61	48	49	48
query93	1505	562	554	554
query94	918	273	308	273
query95	356	260	257	257
query96	636	281	286	281
query97	3309	3194	3135	3135
query98	217	206	196	196
query99	1499	1347	1294	1294
Total cold run time: 303231 ms
Total hot run time: 198184 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 29.88 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 81f12f5fa3428b3c6e982159d1a7c1f2189e235b, data reload: false

query1	0.04	0.03	0.03
query2	0.07	0.04	0.03
query3	0.24	0.06	0.06
query4	1.62	0.11	0.11
query5	0.51	0.52	0.50
query6	1.13	0.74	0.72
query7	0.04	0.02	0.01
query8	0.04	0.04	0.03
query9	0.57	0.50	0.52
query10	0.57	0.56	0.57
query11	0.15	0.11	0.11
query12	0.15	0.11	0.12
query13	0.62	0.60	0.60
query14	0.79	0.79	0.80
query15	0.85	0.84	0.83
query16	0.39	0.39	0.38
query17	1.06	1.07	1.02
query18	0.25	0.23	0.22
query19	1.97	1.79	1.78
query20	0.01	0.01	0.01
query21	15.40	0.56	0.58
query22	2.32	2.20	1.80
query23	16.97	1.01	0.82
query24	3.48	2.02	0.41
query25	0.29	0.11	0.24
query26	0.44	0.15	0.16
query27	0.05	0.03	0.05
query28	9.72	0.54	0.52
query29	12.62	3.26	3.27
query30	0.24	0.06	0.06
query31	2.87	0.40	0.39
query32	3.22	0.48	0.46
query33	2.97	3.00	3.03
query34	16.94	4.53	4.55
query35	4.62	4.58	4.60
query36	0.66	0.50	0.50
query37	0.09	0.06	0.07
query38	0.04	0.04	0.03
query39	0.04	0.02	0.02
query40	0.18	0.13	0.12
query41	0.08	0.02	0.02
query42	0.04	0.03	0.02
query43	0.04	0.03	0.03
Total cold run time: 104.39 s
Total hot run time: 29.88 s

[dataroaring]

LGTM