branch-3.1 [enhance](meta-service) add real request ip for be rpc #53114

[koarz]

pick #53114

[hello-stephen]

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1. What problem was fixed (it's best to include specific error reporting information). How it was fixed.
2. Which behaviors were modified. What was the previous behavior, what is it now, why was it modified, and what possible impacts might there be.
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4. Which code was refactored and why was this part of the code refactored?
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[koarz]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

Cloud UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 100.00% (30/30) 🎉

Increment coverage report
Complete coverage report

Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	81.15% (1188/1464)
Line Coverage	65.30% (20580/31516)
Region Coverage	66.71% (10424/15625)
Branch Coverage	56.52% (5505/9740)

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40107 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit ea988a68273deec3f023603ff0aab71f86f4a3e9, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17902	6929	6628	6628
q2	2081	168	162	162
q3	10934	1227	1230	1227
q4	10877	780	765	765
q5	8522	2996	2870	2870
q6	215	140	140	140
q7	1018	629	629	629
q8	9387	2041	2032	2032
q9	6812	6408	6454	6408
q10	6996	2277	2326	2277
q11	478	282	275	275
q12	403	217	218	217
q13	17792	2994	2983	2983
q14	238	219	208	208
q15	504	489	471	471
q16	477	379	388	379
q17	1014	606	589	589
q18	7352	6624	6746	6624
q19	1320	1060	950	950
q20	465	197	203	197
q21	3954	3105	3141	3105
q22	1125	971	1009	971
Total cold run time: 109866 ms
Total hot run time: 40107 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	6672	6564	6666	6564
q2	330	237	245	237
q3	3134	2954	3018	2954
q4	2075	1758	1835	1758
q5	5719	5697	5772	5697
q6	207	128	126	126
q7	2196	1811	1820	1811
q8	3356	3492	3513	3492
q9	8930	8907	8911	8907
q10	3582	3527	3547	3527
q11	587	488	480	480
q12	826	653	624	624
q13	7919	3109	3187	3109
q14	299	260	264	260
q15	522	459	472	459
q16	497	439	444	439
q17	1870	1650	1635	1635
q18	8298	7823	7680	7680
q19	1679	1621	1479	1479
q20	2129	1894	1850	1850
q21	5202	4859	4894	4859
q22	1108	1004	984	984
Total cold run time: 67137 ms
Total hot run time: 58931 ms

[doris-robot]

BE UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 0.00% (0/1) 🎉

Increment coverage report
Complete coverage report

Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	45.20% (12509/27673)
Line Coverage	36.10% (111100/307781)
Region Coverage	35.22% (57477/163194)
Branch Coverage	32.32% (31208/96554)

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 190171 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit ea988a68273deec3f023603ff0aab71f86f4a3e9, data reload: false

query1	966	370	366	366
query2	6541	1930	1856	1856
query3	6705	219	223	219
query4	34217	23536	23515	23515
query5	4404	474	460	460
query6	269	178	172	172
query7	4629	314	310	310
query8	285	232	230	230
query9	9620	2627	2616	2616
query10	490	283	257	257
query11	18292	15147	15218	15147
query12	164	107	112	107
query13	1648	456	433	433
query14	10131	7043	6591	6591
query15	255	176	181	176
query16	8142	506	465	465
query17	1633	578	576	576
query18	2153	317	319	317
query19	316	160	160	160
query20	120	110	112	110
query21	207	115	107	107
query22	4386	4200	4188	4188
query23	34769	33870	33401	33401
query24	11298	2878	2842	2842
query25	717	423	412	412
query26	1239	172	174	172
query27	2554	341	348	341
query28	7667	2128	2142	2128
query29	880	458	450	450
query30	333	160	162	160
query31	1049	785	798	785
query32	103	64	62	62
query33	807	339	334	334
query34	924	499	512	499
query35	845	736	704	704
query36	1060	964	902	902
query37	135	76	73	73
query38	3925	3802	3808	3802
query39	1464	1420	1474	1420
query40	205	108	104	104
query41	57	53	52	52
query42	121	107	105	105
query43	525	469	468	468
query44	1290	826	814	814
query45	184	171	174	171
query46	1182	709	714	709
query47	1958	1824	1886	1824
query48	428	348	357	348
query49	1209	423	421	421
query50	816	434	427	427
query51	7362	7252	7047	7047
query52	108	100	95	95
query53	263	195	189	189
query54	1325	489	497	489
query55	81	83	80	80
query56	284	264	272	264
query57	1289	1189	1153	1153
query58	257	228	234	228
query59	3074	2848	2940	2848
query60	293	266	263	263
query61	111	119	111	111
query62	873	669	693	669
query63	226	192	193	192
query64	5385	643	624	624
query65	3313	3203	3212	3203
query66	1455	320	350	320
query67	16069	16157	15592	15592
query68	4791	568	576	568
query69	454	261	258	258
query70	1155	1093	1075	1075
query71	411	278	266	266
query72	6719	4311	3998	3998
query73	767	352	364	352
query74	9743	8988	9001	8988
query75	3494	2659	2664	2659
query76	3072	992	1129	992
query77	480	282	277	277
query78	10543	9619	9551	9551
query79	1119	603	598	598
query80	774	445	450	445
query81	515	221	221	221
query82	1262	92	93	92
query83	244	151	145	145
query84	244	80	80	80
query85	1106	316	298	298
query86	321	305	295	295
query87	4362	4240	4261	4240
query88	3692	2430	2413	2413
query89	412	296	295	295
query90	2021	190	191	190
query91	141	108	110	108
query92	63	54	54	54
query93	1061	557	549	549
query94	778	302	294	294
query95	359	267	258	258
query96	609	287	284	284
query97	3318	3170	3159	3159
query98	207	206	202	202
query99	1475	1346	1292	1292
Total cold run time: 300797 ms
Total hot run time: 190171 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 30.25 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit ea988a68273deec3f023603ff0aab71f86f4a3e9, data reload: false

query1	0.04	0.04	0.03
query2	0.07	0.03	0.03
query3	0.23	0.06	0.06
query4	1.63	0.11	0.10
query5	0.53	0.51	0.49
query6	1.12	0.73	0.73
query7	0.02	0.01	0.02
query8	0.04	0.03	0.03
query9	0.57	0.49	0.50
query10	0.54	0.55	0.55
query11	0.14	0.11	0.10
query12	0.14	0.11	0.11
query13	0.61	0.57	0.60
query14	0.78	0.80	0.82
query15	0.84	0.84	0.84
query16	0.40	0.38	0.40
query17	1.05	1.03	1.00
query18	0.24	0.22	0.22
query19	1.95	1.73	1.81
query20	0.01	0.01	0.01
query21	15.39	0.61	0.58
query22	2.40	2.92	1.60
query23	16.95	1.02	0.97
query24	2.74	1.18	1.51
query25	0.21	0.14	0.12
query26	0.37	0.13	0.15
query27	0.05	0.05	0.03
query28	10.07	0.51	0.46
query29	12.59	3.18	3.19
query30	0.24	0.06	0.06
query31	2.87	0.39	0.40
query32	3.24	0.46	0.46
query33	3.02	3.01	3.01
query34	17.21	4.48	4.50
query35	4.56	4.55	4.55
query36	0.69	0.48	0.48
query37	0.08	0.05	0.06
query38	0.05	0.04	0.03
query39	0.03	0.02	0.03
query40	0.16	0.12	0.12
query41	0.08	0.02	0.02
query42	0.03	0.02	0.02
query43	0.03	0.03	0.03
Total cold run time: 104.01 s
Total hot run time: 30.25 s

[koarz]

run external

[koarz]

run nonConcurrent