branch-3.0: [fix](sql_select_limit) sql_select_limit should not affect DML #53379

[morrySnow]

cherry picked from #53379

[hello-stephen]

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1. What problem was fixed (it's best to include specific error reporting information). How it was fixed.
2. Which behaviors were modified. What was the previous behavior, what is it now, why was it modified, and what possible impacts might there be.
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4. Which code was refactored and why was this part of the code refactored?
5. Which functions were optimized and what is the difference before and after the optimization?

[morrySnow]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 39689 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 0a57b36cea518fc11c44d1f5cccc694674f726f2, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17856	6878	6696	6696
q2	2072	174	158	158
q3	10630	1149	1102	1102
q4	10412	738	722	722
q5	7744	2892	2784	2784
q6	210	130	135	130
q7	983	610	595	595
q8	9394	1952	2061	1952
q9	6600	6433	6455	6433
q10	7032	2275	2265	2265
q11	459	257	268	257
q12	398	212	215	212
q13	17771	2968	2988	2968
q14	235	202	209	202
q15	516	476	475	475
q16	500	391	382	382
q17	1000	536	545	536
q18	7387	6491	6652	6491
q19	1399	1032	1117	1032
q20	491	195	205	195
q21	3948	3130	3145	3130
q22	1077	972	1000	972
Total cold run time: 108114 ms
Total hot run time: 39689 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	6619	6574	6601	6574
q2	323	231	232	231
q3	2941	2912	2900	2900
q4	2066	1914	1825	1825
q5	5690	5756	5734	5734
q6	222	133	133	133
q7	2241	1745	1816	1745
q8	3375	3535	3553	3535
q9	8734	8943	8939	8939
q10	3562	3564	3533	3533
q11	629	482	477	477
q12	816	627	603	603
q13	7748	3188	3112	3112
q14	294	262	264	262
q15	526	467	465	465
q16	501	449	440	440
q17	1865	1633	1640	1633
q18	8209	7844	7619	7619
q19	1748	1609	1640	1609
q20	2044	1847	1787	1787
q21	5352	5020	4954	4954
q22	1133	1055	1039	1039
Total cold run time: 66638 ms
Total hot run time: 59149 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 196535 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 0a57b36cea518fc11c44d1f5cccc694674f726f2, data reload: false

query1	1285	899	899	899
query2	6366	1959	1883	1883
query3	10823	4277	4427	4277
query4	33239	23470	24001	23470
query5	4246	463	449	449
query6	270	177	174	174
query7	4004	316	329	316
query8	269	216	225	216
query9	9417	2573	2564	2564
query10	491	272	272	272
query11	17860	15513	15002	15002
query12	157	102	103	102
query13	1554	435	412	412
query14	9755	6734	7447	6734
query15	261	182	195	182
query16	7855	482	496	482
query17	1633	596	623	596
query18	2128	316	323	316
query19	236	166	178	166
query20	127	115	109	109
query21	205	109	111	109
query22	4800	4366	4474	4366
query23	35295	34426	35248	34426
query24	12225	2907	2972	2907
query25	564	434	422	422
query26	1147	179	175	175
query27	2827	361	360	360
query28	7666	2147	2160	2147
query29	699	503	508	503
query30	264	170	165	165
query31	1054	856	834	834
query32	91	54	59	54
query33	764	291	289	289
query34	941	511	537	511
query35	868	729	722	722
query36	1105	941	921	921
query37	189	72	76	72
query38	4141	3971	3965	3965
query39	1510	1516	1445	1445
query40	265	106	107	106
query41	53	50	51	50
query42	115	105	102	102
query43	528	499	481	481
query44	1283	825	812	812
query45	193	178	171	171
query46	1185	780	749	749
query47	1979	1868	1907	1868
query48	484	381	386	381
query49	1056	404	414	404
query50	854	430	423	423
query51	7494	7245	7280	7245
query52	104	95	95	95
query53	271	191	189	189
query54	1325	462	470	462
query55	78	78	80	78
query56	275	255	258	255
query57	1311	1211	1216	1211
query58	237	214	224	214
query59	3250	3027	2998	2998
query60	296	259	264	259
query61	160	137	112	112
query62	869	699	715	699
query63	227	193	202	193
query64	5043	699	648	648
query65	3366	3325	3273	3273
query66	1194	291	287	287
query67	15908	15327	15651	15327
query68	5208	576	565	565
query69	441	265	266	265
query70	1143	1016	1109	1016
query71	344	259	266	259
query72	5871	4023	4047	4023
query73	783	357	363	357
query74	10764	9284	9178	9178
query75	3378	2646	2646	2646
query76	3011	1017	1140	1017
query77	378	272	276	272
query78	10537	9527	9480	9480
query79	1701	620	614	614
query80	1087	439	424	424
query81	553	225	225	225
query82	926	88	89	88
query83	232	153	137	137
query84	236	85	84	84
query85	1318	301	293	293
query86	367	270	293	270
query87	4415	4331	4195	4195
query88	3716	2393	2385	2385
query89	418	288	286	286
query90	1979	186	191	186
query91	183	153	149	149
query92	60	51	51	51
query93	1744	550	548	548
query94	940	280	303	280
query95	364	252	253	252
query96	619	280	280	280
query97	3291	3116	3103	3103
query98	217	197	199	197
query99	1534	1306	1304	1304
Total cold run time: 305492 ms
Total hot run time: 196535 ms

[hello-stephen]

FE UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 60.00% (3/5) 🎉
Increment coverage report
Complete coverage report

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 30.21 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 0a57b36cea518fc11c44d1f5cccc694674f726f2, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.03	0.03
query2	0.08	0.03	0.03
query3	0.25	0.06	0.06
query4	1.61	0.11	0.10
query5	0.50	0.51	0.50
query6	1.12	0.72	0.72
query7	0.02	0.02	0.02
query8	0.04	0.03	0.03
query9	0.58	0.50	0.49
query10	0.55	0.58	0.55
query11	0.14	0.11	0.11
query12	0.14	0.12	0.11
query13	0.61	0.59	0.59
query14	0.77	0.78	0.80
query15	0.85	0.83	0.83
query16	0.38	0.40	0.39
query17	0.99	1.04	1.01
query18	0.25	0.22	0.21
query19	1.94	1.87	1.88
query20	0.01	0.01	0.01
query21	15.39	0.58	0.60
query22	2.42	2.38	1.52
query23	17.06	0.85	0.82
query24	3.41	1.37	1.29
query25	0.14	0.19	0.05
query26	0.72	0.14	0.13
query27	0.05	0.05	0.04
query28	9.59	0.54	0.45
query29	12.59	3.23	3.22
query30	0.25	0.06	0.06
query31	2.87	0.37	0.38
query32	3.26	0.47	0.45
query33	2.98	3.01	3.02
query34	16.84	4.50	4.48
query35	4.51	4.51	4.51
query36	0.67	0.48	0.48
query37	0.10	0.07	0.07
query38	0.05	0.03	0.04
query39	0.04	0.02	0.03
query40	0.17	0.12	0.13
query41	0.08	0.02	0.02
query42	0.04	0.02	0.02
query43	0.03	0.03	0.03
Total cold run time: 104.12 s
Total hot run time: 30.21 s

[hello-stephen]

FE UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 60.00% (3/5) 🎉
Increment coverage report
Complete coverage report

[dataroaring]

LGTM