[Backport] MSQ: Fix calculation of suggested memory in WorkerMemoryParameters. (#17108)

[kfaraz]

The "suggested server memory" figure needs to take into account maxConcurrentStages. The fix here does not affect the main memory calculations, but it does affect the accuracy of error messages.

Fixes #XXXX.

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