KAFKA-12879: Revert changes from KAFKA-12339 and instead add retry capability to KafkaBasedLog

[philipnee]

Summary
Fixes the compatibility issue regarding KAFKA-12879 by reverting the changes to the admin client from KAFKA-12339 (#10152), and instead perform the retries within the KafkaBasedLog via a new TopicAdmin.retryEndOffsets(..). This method will delegate to the existing TopicAdmin.endOffsets(...) and will retry on RetriableException until the retries (max retries) is hit, or until a specified timeout.

This change should be backward compatible to the KAFKA-12339.

Notable changes are:
Reverted KAFKA-12339

TopicAdmin
Added new retryEndOffsets(...) method that utilizes the new RetryUtil to list end offsets for a set of topic partitions and perform retries upon any RetriableException (including UnknownTopicOrPartitionException, TimeoutException).

KafkaBasdLog
During startup calls TopicAdmin.retryEndOffsets(...) to read end offsets for the log topic and retries if the topic is not available (or any RetriableException).

RetryUtil
A general utility that takes a Callable function, the total duration to retry (may be 0), and backoff time in ms, and that calls the function at least once, and performs retries using the parameters when the function throws RetriableException (e.g. UnknownTopicOrPartitionException, TimeoutException)

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