[v1.x] backport #18500 - [Bug Fixed] Fix batch norm when grad_req is add

[wkcn]

Description

Bacport #18500
I only change the unit-test to make it compatible with the eldder version of MXNet.

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Changes

• backport [Bug Fixed] Fix batch norm when grad_req is add #18500
• change the unit-test to make it compatible with the eldder version of MXNet.

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• If this change is a backward incompatible change, why must this change be made.
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[ciyongch]

Hi @TaoLv , @pengzhao-intel please help to review and merged. This PR fixed the functionality issue for BN gradient. The corresponding one for master was merged #18500.