[improve][client-c++]Support include message header size when check maxMessageSize

[coderzc]

Master Issue: #17188

Motivation

See: #17188

Modifications

Support include message header size when check maxMessageSize for cpp client

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This change is already covered by existing tests, such as testMaxMessageSize、testNoBatchMaxMessageSize、testChunkingMaxMessageSize.

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[shibd]

Odd, why is the java client compilation failed?
https://github.com/apache/pulsar/runs/8033665923?check_suite_focus=true

Error:  Failed to execute goal org.apache.maven.plugins:maven-compiler-plugin:3.10.1:compile (default-compile) on project pulsar-client-original: Compilation failure
Error:  /Users/runner/work/pulsar/pulsar/pulsar-client/src/main/java/org/apache/pulsar/client/impl/BatchMessageContainerImpl.java:[222,39] no suitable method found for sendMessage(long,long,int,org.apache.pulsar.common.api.proto.MessageMetadata,io.netty.buffer.ByteBuf)
Error:      method org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ProducerImpl.sendMessage(long,long,int,org.apache.pulsar.client.api.MessageId,org.apache.pulsar.common.api.proto.MessageMetadata,io.netty.buffer.ByteBuf) is not applicable
Error:        (actual and formal argument lists differ in length)
Error:      method org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ProducerImpl.sendMessage(long,long,long,int,org.apache.pulsar.common.api.proto.MessageMetadata,io.netty.buffer.ByteBuf) is not applicable

[coderzc]

Odd, why is the java client compilation failed? https://github.com/apache/pulsar/runs/8033665923?check_suite_focus=true

Error:  Failed to execute goal org.apache.maven.plugins:maven-compiler-plugin:3.10.1:compile (default-compile) on project pulsar-client-original: Compilation failure
Error:  /Users/runner/work/pulsar/pulsar/pulsar-client/src/main/java/org/apache/pulsar/client/impl/BatchMessageContainerImpl.java:[222,39] no suitable method found for sendMessage(long,long,int,org.apache.pulsar.common.api.proto.MessageMetadata,io.netty.buffer.ByteBuf)
Error:      method org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ProducerImpl.sendMessage(long,long,int,org.apache.pulsar.client.api.MessageId,org.apache.pulsar.common.api.proto.MessageMetadata,io.netty.buffer.ByteBuf) is not applicable
Error:        (actual and formal argument lists differ in length)
Error:      method org.apache.pulsar.client.impl.ProducerImpl.sendMessage(long,long,long,int,org.apache.pulsar.common.api.proto.MessageMetadata,io.netty.buffer.ByteBuf) is not applicable

See: #17300

[coderzc]

@RobertIndie PTAL.

[BewareMyPower]

@RobertIndie @merlimat @Demogorgon314 Could any of you leave a 2nd review?