[Fix]Enable abacus to be compiled with CXX 17 & CUDA 13

[ZhouXY-PKU]

Linked Issue

Fix #6752
See also conda-forge/abacus-feedstock#78

Unit Tests and/or Case Tests for my changes

• This PR is a refactoring to improve maintainability and forward-compatibility. No new unit tests are added, as all existing functionality is intended to remain unchanged. The project's existing regression test suite is used to verify that this refactoring does not introduce any regressions across supported CUDA versions.

What's changed?

This PR introduces a CUDA compatibility layer to prepare the codebase for CUDA 13 support and centralize version-specific logic. The key changes are:

1. New Compatibility Module: Modified and added source/source_base/module_device/cuda_compat.h and cuda_compat.cpp. This module acts as an abstraction layer to handle differences between CUDA versions.
2. API Compatibility: It provides a version-agnostic implementation for cufftGetErrorString, which has removed error codes in CUDA 13.
3. Code Refactoring: Deprecated CUDA device properties (like clockRate, memoryClockRate, etc) which were removed in CUDA 13 have been moved from output_device.cpp into the new compatibility layer. This cleans up the main application logic and isolates version-specific code.
4. Build System Update: CMakeLists.txt was updated to include the new source files.
   The primary impact is that ABACUS can now be built with CUDA 13 without modifying the main application code. This also improves long-term maintainability by creating a dedicated place for future CUDA compatibility fixes.

Any changes of core modules? (ignore if not applicable)

There are no changes to the core solver modules (ESolver, HSolver, ElecState, Hamilt, Operator, or Psi). The changes are contained within the module_device infrastructure layer. The purpose of this refactoring is to abstract away hardware/driver-specific details from the core scientific modules, ensuring they remain unaffected by changes in the underlying CUDA toolkit.

[Cstandardlib]

Nice Job!

[Flying-dragon-boxing]

Current implementation of CMakeLists.txt doesn't really detect the CUDA version. The CUDA version is a manually-defined variable, making this CXX 17 issue not automatically solved.

  if(CUDA_VERSION VERSION_GREATER_EQUAL "13.0")
    message(STATUS "CUDA ${CUDA_VERSION} detected. Setting CMAKE_CUDA_STANDARD to 17.")
    set_if_higher(CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD 17)
  endif()

Actually when executing find_package(CUDAToolkit REQUIRED), CMake automatically introduces a variable CUDAToolkit_VERSION. Is there any difficulty introducing this variable in your situation?