feat(vite-plugin): auto restart after rebuild Main process

[caoxiemeihao]

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Summarize your changes:

• Maybe this PR is better than feat(plugin-vite): hot-restart 🔥 #3203 🤔
• Only include Hot Restart 🔥

[erickzhao]

Blocked on #3380 I think, going to draft

[caoxiemeihao]

I plan to implement it in another way when upgrading Vite5, and this PR will not be continued for the time being.