Add all packages we auto-instrument to `serverExternalPackages`

[mydea]

Description

We need to make sure to add all packages we auto-instrument to serverExternalPackages in next.config.ts, so that auto instrumentation actually works.

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This issue was referenced by PR #16552, which was included in the 9.30.0 release.