Backport of docs: Update K8s TGW tutorial to reliably obtain role ID into release/1.13.x

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The grep command used to obtain the ID for the terminating gateway role is not reliable in all scenarios. For example, if there is a similarly named role, the command may return the wrong role ID for the active terminating gateway instance.

This commit updates the command to use jq to obtain the role ID. If multiple roles are found, jq will raise an error informing the user that it cannot reliably determine the role ID.

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• updated test coverage
• external facing docs updated
• appropriate backport labels added
• not a security concern

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