[zero] allow passing process group to zero12

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This PR support passing dp and tp process_group to low_level_zero, which further supports the new processGroupMesh.

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colossalai/booster/booster.py                                     64     10    84%
colossalai/booster/plugin/gemini_plugin.py                       110      9    92%
colossalai/booster/plugin/low_level_zero_plugin.py                96      9    91%
colossalai/booster/plugin/plugin_base.py                          40     10    75%
colossalai/booster/plugin/torch_ddp_plugin.py                     66      2    97%
colossalai/booster/plugin/torch_fsdp_plugin.py                    97     13    87%
colossalai/zero/low_level/_utils.py                              119     66    45%
colossalai/zero/low_level/bookkeeping/bucket_store.py             51      0   100%
colossalai/zero/low_level/bookkeeping/gradient_store.py           31      1    97%
colossalai/zero/low_level/bookkeeping/parameter_store.py          16      0   100%
colossalai/zero/low_level/low_level_optim.py                     243     18    93%
tests/test_booster/test_plugin/test_low_level_zero_plugin.py      59      6    90%
tests/test_zero/test_low_level/test_grad_acc.py                   92     31    66%
tests/test_zero/test_low_level/test_zero1_2.py                   102      1    99%
tests/test_zero/test_low_level/test_zero_init.py                  40      4    90%
tests/test_zero/test_low_level/test_zero_tp.py                    66      1    98%
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TOTAL                                                           1292    181    86%