[roberta] add sdpa to roberta and xlm-roberta

[kiszk]

What does this PR do?

This PR enables sdpa in RoBERTa and XLM-RoBERTa. Since sdpa is already added to BERT thru #28802, this PR follows that PR.

Tests for RoBERTa are done by the followings at ModelTesterMixin.

• test_eager_matches_sdpa_generate - test_eager_matches_sdpa_inference_0_float16
• test_eager_matches_sdpa_inference_0_bfloat16
• test_eager_matches_sdpa_inference_0_float32

Fixes #31752

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@ArthurZucker @hackyon

[kiszk]

I realized this PR has been already submitted to support SDPA for RoBERTa-based models.

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